Gayish Podcast
Featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, and Queerty, Gayish is an award-winning podcast that breaks down one gay stereotype each week. Mike and Kyle bring humor, honesty, and irreverence to topics like the hanky code, depression, and open relationships. Past guests have included Jinkx Monsoon, YouTuber Davey Wavey, gay porn star Calvin Banks, disability activist Andrew Gurza, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s wildly supportive mom.
Featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, and Queerty, Gayish is an award-winning podcast that breaks down one gay stereotype each week. Mike and Kyle bring humor, honesty, and irreverence to topics like the hanky code, depression, and open relationships. Past guests have included Jinkx Monsoon, YouTuber Davey Wavey, gay porn star Calvin Banks, disability activist Andrew Gurza, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s wildly supportive mom.
Episodes
Aug 18, 2022
Aug 18, 2022
1 hr 8 min
Can gays and lesbians be friends? A lesbian and her friend join to help us figure out the answer.
In this episode: News- 1:22 || Main Topic (Gay & Lesbian Friendship)- 12:35 || Guests (Derek and Romaine)- 22:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:46
On Friday, our bonus segment is totally coherent, non-repetitive, and very well planned. Join Patreon for as low as $2/mo, and tons of great bonus content starting at $5/mo. Visit www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast for all the levels and benefits.
Aug 18, 2022
1 hr 8 min
Aug 11, 2022
Gayish: 294 Camping
Aug 11, 2022
Aug 11, 2022
1 hr 23 min
Camping. It’s a straight people thing, right? It’s dirty, has no amenities, no bars…. but then again, it’s always been kinda homoerotic. And more and more queer people are doing it. And there are gay campgrounds. So maybe it’s gayer than we think?
In this episode: News- 8:09 || Main Topic (Camping)- 18:20 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:57
Our bonus segment will be delayed this week, but that’s because we’ll be bringing you an interview with someone who works at TRC, a gay campground in the Pacific Northwest! Get ready by signing up at the $5+/mo. level for this and our entire backlog of bonus segments, episodes, and Momsplainings.
Aug 11, 2022
1 hr 23 min
Aug 4, 2022
Gayish: 293 Pegging
Aug 4, 2022
Aug 4, 2022
1 hr 24 sec
From the Pride48 live-streaming weekend, Mike and Kyle get into pegging! While its modern incarnation was from Dan Savage’s Savage Love column, it has historical roots that go way back before that. How as the definition evolved? Who is the #PrinceOfPegging? And how do we destigmatize butt stuff among straight guys?
In this episode: Main Topic (Pegging)- 4:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 53:13
Our bonus segments come out every Friday on Patreon. You can join Patreon for as little as $2/mo, or get bonus segments for $5+/mo. Download bonus content at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast or add the RSS feed to access on your podcatcher of choice.
Aug 4, 2022
1 hr 24 sec
Jul 28, 2022
Gayish: 292 Gay Porn Stars (w/ Cade Maddox)
Jul 28, 2022
Jul 28, 2022
1 hr 10 min
Gay porn star Cade Maddox joins us to talk about the low-budget studio that baited him into the industry, how he does scenes with guys he’s not into, his relationship with his extremely religious mom, and drugs in the porn industry. See more of Cade (and how to sext him?!?) at https://www.cademaddox.com/.
Last reminder to vote for us for Best LGBTQ Podcast at the Podcast Awards at www.podcastawards.com! Deadline is July 31.
In this episode: News- 5:44 || Main Topic (Gay Porn Star)- 19:46 || Guest (Cade Maddox)- 23:43 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:22
On the bonus Patreon segment, we get time for more questions with Cade Maddox, including more on his calendar shoot, why he’s moving away from OnlyFans, how he feels about the term “sex worker,” whether he gets harassed in public, and what his personal (non-filmed) sex is like. Join at the $5+/mo level for bonus segments every week, plus access to our huge backlog of content, at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Jul 28, 2022
1 hr 10 min
Jul 21, 2022
Gayish: 291 Lavender
Jul 21, 2022
Jul 21, 2022
1 hr 5 min
Lavender is the herb of love. It’s also a prominent LGBTQ symbol. We break down why it’s associated with gays, the Lavender Scare, Lavender Graduation, and the famous anti-gay person from history that used lavender instead of bathing.
Vote for us for Best LGBTQ Podcast at the Podcast Awards at www.podcastawards.com!
In this episode: News- 4:00 || Main Topic (Lavender)- 12:33 || Gayest & Straightest- 59:01
Thank you to our Gap Bridgers who vote for an episode topic every month. All other $5+/mo members vote in a Tiebreaker Poll, and this month, we'll be recording a full bonus episode about the winner of that poll, Lambda.
Jul 21, 2022
1 hr 5 min
Jul 14, 2022
Gayish: 290 Katy Perry
Jul 14, 2022
Jul 14, 2022
1 hr 26 min
Is Katy Perry a gay icon? What has she actually said about her sexual orientation? Is her apology for “I Kissed a Girl” too little too late? We take on the KatyCats when we discuss the American Idol herself, Katy Hudson. I mean, Katy Perry.
Vote for us for Best LGBTQ Podcast at the Podcast Awards at www.podcastawards.com!
In this episode: News- 6:10 || Main Topic (Katy Perry)- 18:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:21:03
On the bonus Patreon segment, we break down the Katy Perry vs. Taylor Swift feud to learn who started it, if it’s over, and why it’s important for gay icons to fight. Join Patreon for ad-free episodes, bonus segments, merch, and more! See the full levels and benefits: www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Jul 14, 2022
1 hr 26 min
Jul 7, 2022
Gayish: 289 Snakes
Jul 7, 2022
Jul 7, 2022
1 hr 10 min
We talk queer snakes! Snake orgies! Estrogen-infused snakes! Disney villan snakes! Lil Nas X as a snake! Trouser snakes! Hammaconda! Freud’s dream snake interpretation! Also, the post-Stonewall raid of the Snake Pit. The trauma of testing negative for HIV.
In this episode: News- 3:48 || Main Topic (Snakes)- 14:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:02:58
On the bonus Patreon segment, we get into the trouser snake field guide and Jung's psychoanalytical view of snakes. Support the show and get great benefits by joining at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Jul 7, 2022
1 hr 10 min
Jun 30, 2022
Gayish: 288 Queer Joy
Jun 30, 2022
Jun 30, 2022
1 hr 29 min
Heartstopper. MUNA. Lil Nas X. Going to queer bars. Queer art. Queer anthems. Learning queer history. There’s lots of queer joy in this world, so we make like legs and spread it.
In this episode: News- 4:01 || Main Topic (Queer Joy)- 12:24 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:20:47
On the bonus Patreon segment, Kyle shares gayta on religion, gayness, and happiness. Is it possible for them to coexist? See all the levels and benefits of Patreon membership at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Jun 30, 2022
1 hr 29 min
Jun 27, 2022
Gayish: 287 Roe v. Wade [Shrinkage]
Jun 27, 2022
Jun 27, 2022
12 min
Mike breaks down the recent US Supreme Court decision that overturned Roe v. Wade. We discuss the impact of Dobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization, the role of due process in granting rights, and the similar decisions that are now at risk: Lawrence v. Texas, Griswold v. Connecticut, Obergefell v. Hodges, and (the noticeably absent) Loving v. Virginia.
Jun 27, 2022
12 min
Jun 23, 2022
Gayish: 286 Queer Spaces
Jun 23, 2022
Jun 23, 2022
1 hr 38 min
Do we still need queer spaces? We explore the history (including Greek bathhouses, molly houses, and Mother Clap) the failure of social media sites to protect queer people (focused on GLAAD’s Social Media Safety Index), and whether allies belong in queer spaces.
This episode was sponsored by Spaces, a new group chat app for queer communities. Join our Gayish space on iOS: https://queerspaces.com/s/BqN4x27HMh6L74WW8.
Our Pride Happy Hour, open to everyone and anyone, is tonight (June 23) at 6pm Pacific / 9pm Eastern. Full event details at www.facebook.com/events/781558556550145.
In this episode: News- 1:58 || Main Topic (Queer Spaces)- 11:38 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:26:18
On the bonus Patreon segment, learn more about GLAAD’s list of memes and terms that steal our language to try to sow discord within the LGBT community, such as globohomo and clovergender. See all the benefits at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.
Jun 23, 2022
1 hr 38 min





